Thursday 16 June 2022

Maintain, Meaning and Magnify (Life Coaching 101) - care for 'your cup' (of life), enjoy what is in it, and 'make it bigger'

Maintain, Meaning and Magnify (Life Coaching 101) - care for 'your cup' (of life), enjoy what is in it, and 'make it bigger'

Poh-Sun Goh, 17 June 2022, Friday, 0602am, Singapore Time

Maintain (sustain, support, renew), (find) Meaning (focus on the moment), Magnify (grow)

or

Using the metaphor of 'a vessel, or a cup' (of life - as your body, your environment [physical, family, social, professional], look after, sustain and maintain your 'cup'; find meaning in the here and now (enjoy and find 'joy' in what you have); and grow (build up your capabilities and capacity, to grow and expand 'your vessel, or cup') - head, hands, heart (e.g. through exploring, reading, reflection, practice, training, feedback, engagement and participation, writing, scholarship, and coaching)

with one caveat

Taking on a larger task, an expanded role, a heavier and more challenging 'burden' 'will' not only 'build muscle' (mental, physical and emotional); it will require more time, attention and energy on your part, or a recurring basis; more resources and support, and more rest, recovery and renewal time

or

at least small daily steps, (micro-practices), that can accumulate and compound over time; scaled up and sustained by either or a combination of teams (associations and organisations, both formal and informal), institutionalised processes, platforms and networks (combining human and 'tech')

also,

before you, 

and as you, 

commit to, 

on ongoing regular basis,

Carefully observe, examine and reflect upon your 'external' experience (of life), your habits, commitments, roles and responsibilities, your choices (intentional and otherwise) - this is the 'surface phenomenon' of your life, what you (and others) 'see'

Go (one or more levels) deeper, to examine and reflect upon your 'inner experience', how you 'feel'

Ask yourself, and consider that a much wider kaleidoscope of experiences, tasks, actions and roles would very well 'give' you the 'same feeling'

If necessary, do deep (inner) work on this. Regular deep and quiet reflection. Read. Expose yourself to a wider and deeper range of ideas and perspectives (on life and living). Get coaching. 




https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/06/a-balanced-life-at-arms-reach-life.html



Monday 13 June 2022

’A balanced Life’ - ‘At arms reach’ (Life-Coaching 101)










Wednesday 8 June 2022

'idea entrepreneur' , 'Micro-Scholarship', 'Meta-Skills'

'idea entrepreneur' ,  'Micro-Scholarship' , 'Meta-Skills


https://hbr.org/2013/05/idea-entrepreneur-the-new-21st


https://hbr.org/video/2363618060001/becoming-an-idea-entrepreneur


https://www.inc.com/jana-kasperkevic/7-steps-to-becoming-an-idea-entrepreneur.html


https://microscholarship.blogspot.com/


https://telmeded.blogspot.com/2022/06/from-micro-content-and-micro.html


https://telmeded.blogspot.com/2022/05/micro-content-and-micro-scholarship-as.html


https://medicaleducationelearning.blogspot.com/2022/06/going-beyond-surface-and-deep-learning.html


https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/05/surface-vs-deep-thinking-and-reflection.html


https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/01/metaskills.html


https://medicaleducationelearning.blogspot.com/2022/02/the-vision-of-transformation-in-medical.html


Goh, PS. 'The vision of transformation in medical education after the COVID-19 pandemic'. Korean J Med Educ. 2021;33 (3): 171-174. Publication Date (Web): 2021 August 27

https://doi.org/10.3946/kjme.2021.197


Goh, PS. Medical Educator Roles of the Future. Med.Sci.Educ. 30, 5–7 (2020). https://doi.org/10.1007/s40670-020-01086-w


Goh PS and Sandars J. Insights from the culinary arts for medical educators [version 1]. MedEdPublish 2017, 6:10. https://doi.org/10.15694/mep.2017.000010


Goh P. S. (2016). eLearning or technology enhanced learning in medical education-Hope, not hype. Medical teacher, 38(9), 957–958. https://doi.org/10.3109/0142159X.2016.1147538


Goh P. S. (2016). Using a blog as an integrated eLearning tool and platform. Medical teacher, 38(6), 628–629. https://doi.org/10.3109/0142159X.2015.1105947

Tuesday 7 June 2022

Ontological Coaching Revisited - Applying 'the Science'

Alexander, R., Aragón, O. R., Bookwala, J., Cherbuin, N., Gatt, J. M., Kahrilas, I. J., Kästner, N., Lawrence, A., Lowe, L., Morrison, R. G., Mueller, S. C., Nusslock, R., Papadelis, C., Polnaszek, K. L., Helene Richter, S., Silton, R. L., & Styliadis, C. (2021). The neuroscience of positive emotions and affect: Implications for cultivating happiness and wellbeing. Neuroscience and biobehavioral reviews, 121, 220–249.  biobehavioral reviews, 121, 220–249. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.neubiorev.2020.12.002 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763420306801?via%3Dihub


https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/06/somatic-coaching-going-beyond-surface.html


Reed, C. L., Moody, E. J., Mgrublian, K., Assaad, S., Schey, A., & McIntosh, D. N. (2020). Body Matters in Emotion: Restricted Body Movement and Posture Affect Expression and Recognition of Status-Related Emotions. Frontiers in psychology, 11, 1961. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.01961

Lotte Veenstra, Iris K. Schneider & Sander L. Koole (2017) Embodied mood regulation: the impact of body posture on mood recovery, negative thoughts, and mood-congruent recall, Cognition and Emotion, 31:7, 1361-1376, DOI: 10.1080/02699931.2016.1225003 

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/02699931.2016.1225003

Nair, S., Sagar, M., Sollers, J., 3rd, Consedine, N., & Broadbent, E. (2015). Do slumped and upright postures affect stress responses? A randomized trial. Health psychology : official journal of the Division of Health Psychology, American Psychological Association, 34(6), 632–641. https://doi.org/10.1037/hea0000146


https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/06/body-posture-and-feeling.html

https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/06/reflection-on-extent-of-surface-area.html


https://www.psychologytoday.com/sg/blog/the-athletes-way/202201/how-does-vagus-nerve-stimulation-reduce-ptsd-symptoms

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/vagus-nerve-stimulation/


https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/06/how-to-improve-vagal-tone-at-home.html


Julio Olalla - ICF Keynote Speech: Our Unique Observer in the World (YouTube)

Julio Olalla - What Coaching Really Means (YouTube)

What is Ontology (YouTube)

Ontological Coaching explained by Alan Sieler (YouTube)

What are examples of powerful coaching questions? (YouTube)

0:29 / 20:49 ICF Ireland PCC Coaching Demonstration delivered by Ailbhe Harrington (YouTube)

Somatic Coaching - Going 'beyond' Surface and Deep Learning - Using See, Do and Teach 'extended' process

Somatic Coaching - Going 'beyond' Surface and Deep Learning - Using See, Do and Teach 'extended' process

Poh-Sun Goh, 8 June 2022, Wednesday, 0336am, Singapore Time



Go 'beyond' Surface and Deep Learning - Using See, Do and Teach 'extended' process

From See, Do and Teach; to See (become Aware, and Explore), Do (Sample, Try[out], Experiment [and 'Play with], Practice [with reflection and feedback, including Deliberate Practice], (then) Teach (explain, elaborate, present) and then go beyond Teaching (extend Teaching and Practice, explore underlying ideas, improve and innovate) through Open Scholarship (including Micro-Scholarship)

https://medicaleducationelearning.blogspot.com/2022/06/going-beyond-surface-and-deep-learning.html


Start with what you 'see' and 'observe' - as a coach (in coachee or client; and in myself as coach), or coachee (in yourself as client) - become aware of 'how' you are 'holding your body' (your posture, your body 'shape', how you 'show up'), your (four) disposition(s) - grounded, resolute, flexible, open, and combinations of these; your breathing; how you move in the world - essentially how you 'show up' and 'your body shape' and 'body language' - which then affects and allows (makes it easier) to communicate congruent emotional and verbal (speech) messages to the world, which has direct impact and effect on what the world 'sees' and 'feels' about you, and your message(s).


https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/06/reflection-on-extent-of-surface-area.html


After becoming aware of, and observing; then Do (try out, experiment, and play with different body shapes, and body dispositions). Practice with reflection and feedback.


Why Is The Body Relevant to Coaching - Chris Balsley (YouTube)

Everyday Leadership Episode 8: Leadership Energy with Chris Balsley (YouTube)


Take this to the next level by explaining and describing what you are noticing, and feeling. Including with your coach. 


Take notes, and make notes. Go deeper into 'why' you are somatically showing up day to day in a particular way. Your past. Settings, situations, environments, interactions (with others). Your history. How this has served you. Wins and losses. What has worked, and what has not. What this informs you of your values, drives. Then intentionally shape, and design your future. With awareness, observation and insight.


Share and Teach others. Write and engage in open Scholarship. Go deeper into the science and practice of somatic coaching.


https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/06/body-posture-and-feeling.html

https://pohsungoh.blogspot.com/2022/06/how-to-improve-vagal-tone-at-home.html

https://claremyatt.co.uk/what-is-somatic-coaching/


Google search for 'somatic practices for powerful stage performaces'

Kapadocha, Christina. (2017). The development of Somatic Acting Process in UK-based actor training. Journal of Dance & Somatic Practices. 9. 213-221. 10.1386/jdsp.9.2.213_1. 

Monday 6 June 2022

Body Posture and 'Feeling'

Google search for 'How body posture affects psychology'


Reed, C. L., Moody, E. J., Mgrublian, K., Assaad, S., Schey, A., & McIntosh, D. N. (2020). Body Matters in Emotion: Restricted Body Movement and Posture Affect Expression and Recognition of Status-Related Emotions. Frontiers in psychology, 11, 1961. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.01961


Lotte Veenstra, Iris K. Schneider & Sander L. Koole (2017) Embodied mood regulation: the impact of body posture on mood recovery, negative thoughts, and mood-congruent recall, Cognition and Emotion, 31:7, 1361-1376, DOI: 10.1080/02699931.2016.1225003 


Nair, S., Sagar, M., Sollers, J., 3rd, Consedine, N., & Broadbent, E. (2015). Do slumped and upright postures affect stress responses? A randomized trial. Health psychology : official journal of the Division of Health Psychology, American Psychological Association, 34(6), 632–641. https://doi.org/10.1037/hea0000146










Body Posture Affects Confidence In Your Own Thoughts, Study Finds

Reflection on (extent of) 'Surface (Area) Contact, Sensation, Space - using a (rainfall or waterfall) Shower, Spa, Onsen, Bath, Swim experience metaphor

Reflection on (extent of) 'Surface (Area) Contact, Sensation, Space - using a (rainfall or waterfall) Shower, Spa, Onsen, Bath, Swim experience metaphor

Poh-Sun Goh, 7 June 2022, Tuesday, 0900am, Singapore Time


(practice) Mindful Awareness and Observation

(of the contact) of Water, Warmth, Cold, Space, a (gentle) Breeze (on your skin)

(during a) Shower, Bath, Spa or Onsen experience, Swim

(expand, and extend this awareness to that) of Space 

Feel (and experience with all of your senses) Space

Time

Daily Cycles (within a moment, and over a day)

Seasons

(expand this feeling, and thinking) to consider and experience the full sensation of 

Breathing, (the contact of air with your Airways, and Lung surfaces)

Drinking and Eating, (feel, the full contact of what you eat and drink with all the surfaces of your digestive system)

Consider, with Insight and new Awareness 

How you will focus your Attention, and Intentional Choice

Moment by Moment

Of Gravity

Contact

Breathing

Posture

(with full and expanded) Somatic Awareness

How to improve 'vagal tone' - 'at home'?

Google search for 'how to improve vagal tone at home?' 


https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/02/well/mind/vagus-nerve-mental-health.html


https://www.psychologytoday.com/sg/blog/the-athletes-way/202201/how-does-vagus-nerve-stimulation-reduce-ptsd-symptoms


https://health.clevelandclinic.org/vagus-nerve-stimulation/


https://www.forbes.com/sites/womensmedia/2021/04/15/what-the-vagus-nerve-is-and-how-to-stimulate-it-for-better-mental-health/?sh=f90711f6250c


https://www.allied-services.org/news/2020/june/the-vagus-nerve-your-secret-weapon-in-fighting-s/


https://www.brainharmony.com/blog/2021/6/5/15-ways-to-create-vagal-regulation-at-home


https://www.stress.org/contentment-connection-easy-ways-to-nourish-your-vagus-nerve-to-become-more-content


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vagus_nerve


https://www.britannica.com/science/vagus-nerve


https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/318128#Vagus-nerve-stimulation

Saturday 4 June 2022

The Present, Be(ing) Present, (is a) Present, (the) Present

The Present, Be(ing) Present, (is a) Present, (the) Present (to yourself), (and others, with and affecting your) Presence - How you 'show up'

Poh-Sun Goh, 5 June 2022, Sunday, 0815am, Singapore Time


Day 18 micro-practice and micro-exercise

The Present you give yourself, and others, is being Present, Moment by Moment.

Your Presence is directly related to being Present, Moment by Moment.

Poh-Sun Goh, 6 June 2022, Monday, 0203am, Singapore Time


Review, Recap and Preview 

Day 1 to Day 17 micro-practices and micro-exercises (see your WhatsApp individual micro-coaching exercises)

moving forward we will explore, and apply ideas from


'The 80/20 Principle' by Richard Koch

https://medium.com/@aidanhornsby/notes-on-the-80-20-principle-1912002d73c5


'Peak Mind' by Amishi P. Jha

https://www.readallbooks.org/book/peak-mind-find-your-focus-own-your-attention-invest-12-minutes-a-day/


'Start Finishing' by Charlie Gilkey

https://www.productiveflourishing.com/start-finishing/

The Kaleidoscope of Positive Potential Choices and Experiences Effect - Why we 'Travel' (to new places), find 'Libraries and Bookstores' appealing, and look forward to (new) 'Culinary and Dining Experiences'

The Kaleidoscope of Positive Potential Choices and Experiences Effect - Why we 'Travel' (to new places), find 'Libraries and Bookstores' appealing, and look forward to (new) 'Culinary and Dining Experiences'

Poh-Sun Goh, 4 June 2022, Saturday, 1525hrs, Singapore Time


Choices and Experiences

'New', and looked forward to

(a) Wide (Kaleidoscope of) Choices (breadth, depth, range of)


Probably explains the thrill, and excitement we seek from Travel

Libraries (of comprehensive and curated content), Bookstores, Museums and Exhibitions

Culinary and Dining (experiences)


Challenging and Stimulating

(our) Emotions, Minds and Senses (Somatic)

(as a) Sensory and Growth Experience


(from) New Environments, Tasks, Challenges

(or from) Extending and Expanding current Tasks and Challenges

in our Professional and Personal Life